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How to Choose Your First Butt Plug: Beginner Selection Guide
11 September 2024 · 4 min
How to Choose Your First Butt Plug
Size: Max 2.5–3cm diameter. Smaller is better for beginners.
Neck: 1.5–2cm. Narrower is more comfortable.
Material: Silicone or glass. Never TPE.
Shape: Tapered (bulb narrows). Easier insertion than blunt.
Base: Flared base is non-negotiable (safety).
Top Beginner Pick
Aneros Helix or equivalent: £35–50, purpose-designed, perfect beginner size.
Common Mistakes
- Buying too large
- No retrieval/flared base (dangerous)
- Non-silicone material (degradation risk)
Final Advice
Start smaller than you think. 2.5cm diameter max. Silicone or glass only. Flared base mandatory.

